I'm a full-time, stay-at-home momma and self-admitted naptime-lover.
No, I'm not a napper. But I LOVE naptime for the kiddos.
It's time for me to relax, read, get chores done un-interrupted, snack, blog, you know the finer things in life.
When Carter was born, he slept all the time for about the first 3-4 weeks (less a few days of intense tummy-pain before I eliminated dairy from my diet). Then it set in.. the 45-minute nap monster. The child would NOT sleep past 45 min (less a few or more than a few road trips back to Lincoln). It was like a clock, put him down, he'd go right to sleep (this was a blessing) and bam... up 45 minutes on the dot! Much to my joy he outgrew this around 9 months and began taking some nice, long 2 hrs naps - ah, it was bliss. Pretty much he's been a good napper ever since (less a few weeks transitioning from 2-1 nap).
Then came TW. I was convinced that God would NEVER give me another "tough" baby. Boy were we wrong. TW decided that he'd top his brother's 45-minute nap monster and broke me in on the idea of the 30-minute nap monster. I can't even remember when it started, sometime after the first month where I thought having 2 was going to be so easy!! Thankfully TW wasn't as consistent and would sometimes throw a little longer nap here and there (you know like an hour or so). I finally gave up staying home for 2-3o minute naps and tried to move him to 1 nap around age 1. This was a difficult transition, but around 14-15 months he was finally doing 1 nap of 1-1.5 hrs - which seemed like bliss.
At first, their 1 naps didn't coincide. TW was going down at 12/12:30 and Carter at 1:30 - which meant 0 time with no boys for momma. (sometimes when TW was on 2 naps they'd overlap by about 15 minutes - boy were those good days). But now, in the past THREE months they have both been doing 1 nap, both going to sleep at 1:30 and sleeping 1-1.5 hrs. So, for the first time in my life as a mother of 2, I've had some "me time" back to relax, read... you get the picture.
And now... this week... Carter is thinking he's done napping..... I really hope it's just a (QUICK) phase.... because he really can't be done... can he??
SAY IT AIN'T SO!!!!
(do any of you think this has anything to do with the fact that I'm not a napper and a catnapper if I nap at all?? Is this hereditary?? Their dad sure knows how to nap! I want to know about you - do you nap? do your kids? is there a connection here? )